Opus 2024-247: Iron Versus Gold

Bible tells us the iron sharpens iron.  The concept is that when we get together with other spiritual and intelligent people we can run our thoughts by them and they can help us to get a sharper edge.

I think of honing my knife with the honing rod I have.  That is the picture here.  I use it on a regular basis.  I’m wondering if it would still work if the steel of the rod was smooth instead of rough.  Probably, but not as well.

I’m also wondering if it would work at all if the rod we’re made of something soft like tin or Gold?  

There is a fine balance between being too abrasive and too mushy.  When we deal with others it is a hard row to hoe.  We were always aware of it when we were raising children.  Now, as we learn the grandparent role, the learning curve stays steep.  As a part of the church I find I must always reign in my love of a good argument and consider whether I will confuse the issue or clarify it.

Pay attention.  Seek out people who can question you and your assumptions.  If they are right they will endure and be strengthened.  If they are slightly out of line they can be corrected.  If you are flat out wrong they may lead to growth.

Growth can be painful but the end result is glorious.

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