The old age word for the day is “flaccid”. I am not addressing what might come to your mind. I am concerned about the mind it comes to. I am worried about a flaccid mind.
One of the dangers of old age is a mind that has lost its edge. Many worry about such things as dementia, Alzheimer’s and memory loss. We have all seen it in family and friends. I see it in others when they repeat the same question in a conversation or tell the same stories over and over again. Every time I have a hard time remembering a word I start to wonder if it is just a word. Have I told this story before? Was it in this conversation?
I wonder how much of the decline can be held at bay. I remember reading somewhere that learning new skills can keep your mind active. It is very easy to not put in the effort. I sometimes think that writing these posts is one of the ways I try to keep my brain alive. Something else I have thought of trying is not telling stories of things that happened more than a day earlier.
For me the biggest danger is living in a daydream, putting my mind in neutral. I don’t mean naps but flaccid fantasy that robs the mind of vigor. I can sit and drift off on a moment’s notice. I can rework the past and create all kinds of futures. A little probably doesn’t hurt but it is easy to get preoccupied.
I guess this is where grandchildren come in. It is hard to daydream when you are tickling a two year old. Maybe I have a few years left in me yet.
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Grandchildren will also keep you sharp by asking lots of difficult to answer questions.
ReplyDeleteThis week I had to explain Prague powder to my granddaughter. I hope I didn't ruin her childhood. Her brother was quite happy just to suck on his Popsicle.
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